Naʻa ku sio ki ho profile ʻi he dating app
Na-ʻa ku si-o ki ho profile ʻi he dating app
I saw your profile on a dating app
Usage
Used when sending a first message after seeing someone's profile on a dating app
Grammar Note
"Naʻa ku" combines the past tense marker "naʻa" with first-person "ku." The ʻ (fakauʻa) represents a glottal stop.
ʻOku ke fie match kitaua ʻi Tinder?
ʻO-ku ke fi-e match ki-tau-a ʻi Tinder?
Would you like to match on Tinder?
Usage
Used to suggest connecting on a specific app
Grammar Note
"Kitaua" is the Tongan dual inclusive first-person pronoun (speaker and listener = just the two of us). "Taua" is the Samoan form, not Tongan. "ʻOku ke fie" expresses desire in present tense.
Ko e hā ʻoku ke kumi ai ʻi he app ko ʻení?
Ko e hā ʻo-ku ke ku-mi ai ʻi he app ko ʻe-ní?
What are you looking for on this app?
Usage
Used to clarify the other person's intentions on the app
Grammar Note
"Ko e hā" is the question phrase for "what." "Ko ʻení" is a demonstrative meaning "this (one here)."
Ko e foʻou au ʻi he app ko ʻení — ʻoku ngāue fēfē ia?
Ko e fo-ʻou au ʻi he app ko ʻe-ní — ʻo-ku ngā-u-e fē-fē i-a?
I'm new to this app — how does it work?
Usage
Used when new to an app or as a conversation opener
Grammar Note
"Fēfē" is a question word for manner or condition. "Ngāue" means "to work" or "to function."
Te tau lava ke video chat ki muʻa pea tau feʻiloaki?
Te tau la-va ke video chat ki mu-ʻa pe-a tau fe-ʻi-lo-a-ki?
Can we video chat before meeting in person?
Usage
Used to suggest a video call before an in-person meeting for safety
Grammar Note
"Ki muʻa" is a prepositional phrase meaning "in front of / before." "Tau" marks the first person inclusive (it includes the addressee). "Meet" is feʻiloaki
Ko fē ʻoku ke fie feʻiloaki ai ʻi hotau feʻiloaki ʻuluaki?
Ko fē ʻo-ku ke fi-e fe-ʻi-lo-a-ki ai ʻi ho-tau fe-ʻi-lo-a-ki ʻu-lu-a-ki?
Where would you like to meet for our first date?
Usage
Used to let the other person choose the location for a first date
Grammar Note
"Ko fē" is the question phrase for location. "ʻuluaki" is an adjective meaning "first" or "at the beginning." "Meet" is feʻiloaki
Naʻe lelei ʻaupito ʻetau talanoa — ʻoku ke fie feʻiloaki?
Na-ʻe le-lei ʻau-pi-to ʻe-tau ta-la-no-a — ʻo-ku ke fi-e fe-ʻi-lo-a-ki?
I really enjoyed chatting with you — want to meet up?
Usage
Used to propose meeting in person after enjoyable online conversation
Grammar Note
"Talanoa" means "conversation/dialogue" and is an important Pacific concept for open dialogue. "ʻaupito" is an intensifier.
ʻOku lelei ʻaupito ho profile mo ho ngaahi titali!
ʻO-ku le-lei ʻau-pi-to ho profile mo ho nga-a-hi ti-ta-li!
You have a great profile and nice photos!
Usage
Used as a compliment when starting a conversation on a dating app
Grammar Note
"Ngaahi" is a plural marker equivalent to English "-s." "Titali" is a loanword for "picture/photo."
ʻOku ou ʻi heni pē ʻi he uike ʻe taha — te ke fie feʻiloaki?
ʻO-ku ou ʻi he-ni pē ʻi he u-i-ke ʻe ta-ha — te ke fi-e fe-ʻi-lo-a-ki?
I'm visiting for a week — would you like to meet?
Usage
Used while traveling to propose meeting someone local
Grammar Note
"Pē" is a limiting adverb meaning "only/just." "Uike" is a loanword from English "week."
ʻOku ou ʻiloʻi ʻoku tau taau lelei!
ʻO-ku ou ʻi-lo-ʻi ʻo-ku tau ta-au le-lei!
I think we're a great match!
Usage
A positive expression used when feeling a strong connection with someone
Grammar Note
"ʻIloʻi" means "to know/think." "Tau taau lelei" means "we fit/suit each other well," expressing mutual compatibility.
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